Rules of Wrist 10-5-10

Everyone is more than their relationship to you.
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Yet another way to know you love them: your anger evaporates when their safety is threatened.
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If what you’re doing must be kept from those you find most trustworthy it probably isn’t; if you’re really doing something okay then you shouldn’t need to hide it. If you feel the need to lie about what you’re up to it probably shouldn’t be done. Justifying lying with “They wouldn’t understand” isn’t really a justification, and it’s not really accurate: THEY understand perfectly well; YOU are missing something.
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If it’s about the money you’re a whore. If you tell yourself it’s love because you don’t like to think of yourself as a whore then…
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you’re a self-deluding whore.
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If you don’t want them to be with someone else don’t tell them to be with someone else. DUH.
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Saying you want one thing, yet expecting someone to know you mean the opposite is…how to be diplomatic…I can’t: IT’S FUCKING STUPID. Even supposing someone can read your mind they deserve the courtesy of being told the truth; everyone else has to be.
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Someone who
caters to your every whim,
tells you only good things about yourself,
makes you feel like the center of the universe,
does everything you want,
is a sycophant.
Or a puppy.
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If the first thing you say about Them is “They Bought Me ______” whenever They come up in conversation, then you may want to consider what THEY GET FROM YOU.

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