Walters' Rules of Wrist 10-17-10

Rules of Wrist 10-17-10

Just because they say nothing complimentary doesn’t mean they hate you; you really may be an asshole. In fact, calling you an asshole may be the only loving action left to them.

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Just because they say only complimentary things doesn’t mean they love you; they could very well be delusional. And you could still be an asshole.

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If all your friendships, or romantic entanglements have always gone a certain way, and all you’ve done is change friends/partners maybe you were the problem all along.

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Cutting people out of your life because they criticize you is not the same as removing the negative influences.

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Equating criticism with hatred or insanity is a childish attempt to get out of blame.

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Sometimes people act hurt because YOU HURT THEM.

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Sometimes a person is so hurt that they can’t possibly act in a way that reflects kinder feelings towards the one that hurt them until the pain subsides. Live with it.

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It is entirely possible for someone who cares about you to have a view about you and your actions that you don’t like. They still care. That view might even prove it.